Elderly Communication Tips

As our parents and grandparents age, you may notice that it is more challenging to communicate effectively with them.  The following tips are suggested to make communication easier:

 

1.     Make sure the time is convenient.  Just like you, your Mom follows a routine.  She usually wakes up at the same time every day. She eats breakfast, lunch and dinner on a schedule. She may have certain daily activities she enjoys, like watching a particular TV program or getting her hair done. Be respectful. Make sure the time you want to stop by is convenient for her. 

 

2.     Make sure he/she is comfortable and seated in the most comfortable chair in the room. Ask if he/she needs anything to drink or needs to go to the bathroom before beginning your chat.

3.     Make sure your face is well lighted. Hearing loss is common as we age.  Many elderly people unconsciously read lips to better understand what is being said.  If your face is easy to see, it can be easier for your Mom or Dad to understand you.

 

4.     Talk to the good ear, making sure it is closest to you.  Position yourself so your loved one can hear you clearly.

 

5.     Choose a time of day when he/she is better able to focus.  Each of us has times of the day when we have more energy and focus.  Does your Mom function better in the morning, afternoon or evening? 

Does that match with your energy levels? Try to match your peak times.  If both you and your Dad function best mid-afternoon, that is when you should have your chat, so you have a better chance that your ideas will be well received. 

 

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 Submitted by Merle E. Adams